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A Light in the Valley
Matt 5:14-16 Ye are the light of the world...Let your
light so shine!
South Bay Christian Church Newsletter
Spring 2004, Vol. 8 No. 2
Mission Statement
To share the love of God and to guide people into a committed
relationship with Jesus Christ.
From the Editors Desk...
As we prepare for Easter, Communion, and our annual foot washing
ceremony, it is a good idea to focus on the sacrifice that Jesus
made for us. Many have seen Mel Gibsons new movie, The Passion
of the Christ, which graphically portrays the last twelve hours
of Christs life. It seems to bring alive the fact that Jesus
willingly (Hebrews 12:2) was beaten beyond recognition (Isaiah
52:14) and died for our sins (John 3:16,17). People seem to feel
either passionately for the movie or passionately
against. However, one thing the movie does is to open a dialogue
of discussion. This gives Christians a golden opportunity to explain
who Jesus is when talking with a receptive unbeliever and why
He went through so much for us. Being ready always to give an
answer (1 Peter 3:15) is a great way be a Light in the Valley!
Unconditional Love
By Mike Ferranti
What does unconditional love mean to me? It means love with no
conditions. An example of this might be people who own a
pet, for instance a dog. They love it. They take it on walks,
feed and groom it, pet it, and talk to it in a loving manner.
The dog feels comfortable with the owner and shows affection toward
him or her. This dog gives its owner unconditional love, loyalty,
and also protection.
Parents have an unconditional love towards their children. Sometimes
the many problems and stresses in rearing children test the unconditional
love for their children. At times parents experience anger, disappointment,
and in some cases disbelief at what their children are capable
of doing. But in the end, they seem to remember the good things
about their children. The unconditional love never leaves them
even though it may be covered with many problems and situations.
Usually, this love resurfaces and they see their children through
the eyes of love even if there are tears in their eyes.
God sets the example of loving us unconditionally. God loves us
no matter what we do. God loves us no matter what we say. God
loves us no matter what we feel. He loves us even though we make
many mistakes! No matter how we treat others, no matter what thoughtless
things we might say, think, or do, God loves us. In fact He loves
us so much He sent His Son to die for us. (John 3:16,17)
Personal from the Pastor
By Mel Dahlgren
Stuff It
Stuff! What a wonderful word to describe just about everything!
We tend to love our stuff. Stuff gets to be real personal and
you had better not mess with someone elses stuff.
Stuff has a tendency to define who and what we are. Stuff can
be packed away in boxes, or stuff might be what we do with our
emotions or feelings when the stuff around us is just too much
stuff, so the thing to do is stuff it! Stuff has a way of getting
and keeping our attention. Stuff can be a harsh taskmaster! Stuff
demands time, money, thought, love, and a large amount of anxiety
if it is to be cared for properly.
When we moved to San Jose 11 years ago, how I remember the frustrated
man from the moving company. He held his head down and kept pacing
the house saying with his Hungarian accent, You got a lot
of stuff. And this was AFTER we had had our yard sale!!
Is stuff really all that life boils down to in the final analysis?
Can we say that we have had the good life because we have accumulated
millions of dollars worth of stuff? We dont see many funerals
with a U-haul hitched to a hearse. Making a good living does not
always mean making a good life. There must be more to life than
stuff!
Jesus reminded His disciples that just getting ahead is not the
final answer to the great question of life. Jesus said, For
what shall it profit a man if he shall gain the whole world and
lose his own soul? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his
soul? (Mark 8:36-37) Gods Son understood that life
is more than stuff, that making a good living does not always
mean making a good life, and that a full house filled with stuff
does not always correspond to a full life.
God is the giver of all good and perfect gifts (James 1:17) and
desires us to live a good life, but our reason for living is to
use these wonderful gifts, that become our stuff, in such a manner
that we fulfill His purpose in our lives.
Jesus gives us an example that should also serve as a warning
about our stuff. The rich young ruler had much stuff.
He lived a life that observed all the laws of the Jewish faith.
He attended synagogue and was active in the community but when
asked to give up his stuff, his possessions, he found that they
were his life. Then Jesus beholding him loved him, and said
unto him, One thing you lack: go your way, sell whatsoever
you have and give to the poor, and you shall have treasure in
heaven: and come and take up the cross and follow me. And
he was sad and went away grieved: for he had great possessions.
(Mark 10:21-24)
Stuff has a way of taking us away from God even when we desire
to live right. Stuff keeps us so busy and has such an importance
that we cant find time to gather together for worship. How
often has our stuff kept us from church and developing our relationship
with God; stuff like mowing the grass, washing the car, attending
a ballgame, or working that overtime so we will have the money
for the stuff we want? Stuff can keep us from our family and become
more important than our loved ones. Strange stuff isnt it?
Stuff is such a strange phenomenon; it almost kept me from writing
this article. I just had too much stuff to do. God has made it
possible for us to have lots of stuff, but dont let it come
between you and God. Ask God to give you the will to be willing
to stuff-it by stuffing half of the stuff we already
have, and to seek God before we seek any more stuff.
Personal from the Pastors Wife
By Barbara Dahlgren
Where Are Your Roots?
Spring brings visions of warmer weather and colorful flowers.
When I think of flowers, I remember our climbing mandevillas.
They had cost a little more but were well worth it. Four plants
produced large pink flowers that spread across our front fence.
Friends and neighbors kept commenting about how gorgeous they
looked. Not having green thumbs, my husband and I enjoyed the
praises and their beauty. Imagine our shock when we returned from
a trip to find the vines cut straight across about 10 inches from
the ground and the plants, roots and all, missing. Whom does one
call in a situation like this? The potted plant patrol? The horticulture
police? The lawn lawyer? The mandevilla militia? It was all I
could do not to wish the culprits ill will. What kind of a warped
person steals plants from someones front yard? I didnt
know whether to feel sorry for them or wish theyd get an
incurable case of poison oak.
At first the flowers appeared to flourish and looked as good as
ever. If you didnt know the roots were gone youd have
never suspected they were slowly dying. It was sad to see them
one by one wilt and turn brown. The top blooms looked like they
were reaching for the sun, clinging to life but to no avail. Without
the mother plants and roots, they couldnt make it.
It reminds me of the parable of the sower in Matthew 13 (NIV).
Some seeds fell along the path on the wayside. Some fell on stony
ground. Some fell among thorns. Some fell on good ground (v. 3-8).
These seeds represent the word of God (v. 18 -23). Those that
fell among the rocks represent people who receive the word with
joy and gladness but the seed doesnt really take root. Because
these believers are filled with joy, no one would ever know they
arent really rooted in Jesus Christ. By all appearances,
they grow, they flourish, they bloom, and like our dying mandevillas
for a while they look like they are growing, but without roots
they are doomed to whither and die. They believe and endure for
a time. However when tempted, afflicted, persecuted, or offended,
they fall away. They do not persevere.
So I guess the question is, Where are our roots? Are
we rooted in Jesus Christ? Are we rooted in the word of God? Are
we seeking to do the will of the Father? Are we developing an
intimate relationship with Him on a daily basis? Or do we just
come to church every week giving the appearance we are growing
and flourishing? If so, when the trials come, we wont make
it. We might make it through temptation, affliction, or persecution
only to have the least, little offense do us in. Christ warns
us through the parable of the sower, He who has ears, let
him hear. (Matthew 13:9) Only those rooted in Christ will
survive. (Colossians 2:6-8)
And I guess I really dont wish those culprits an incurable
case of poison oak
but a little poison ivy wouldnt
hurt.
Christian Computer Corner
By Brad Mann
This edition of the Christian Computer Corner is focused on
three closely-related fundamental personal computer tools which
can make every user more productive. These three are used together
in various combinations to easily and quickly move text, images,
objects, etc.
THE BIG THREE
The phrase Big Three means different things to different
people. Some think of Churchill, Roosevelt & Stalin; some
think of GM, Ford & Chrysler; for others its Pizza,
Burgers & Fries. But in the history of personal computer productivity
tools, it is hard to beat the simple power and usefulness of Cut,
Copy & Paste.
How To
Begin by selecting what you want to move. The most commonly used
technique is to place the cursor in front of what you want to
select, click the mouse button, drag the mouse to the end of what
you want to select, and then release the mouse button. The text,
image, etc. will be highlighted, or appear in inverse video to
reflect that it has been selected. After selecting your chosen
data, cut or copy, then paste, using the following key combinations:
Windows
Control + C Copy
Control + X Cut
Control + V Paste
Mac
Command + C Copy
Command + X Cut
Command + V Paste
Usefulness
The ability to cut, copy and paste within an application no longer
seems like something special. That feature has been available
since the early days of word processors. Some of the greatest
power of these tools on todays personal computers is found
in the fact that data can be moved from one application to another.
For example, text can be copied from a PowerPoint presentation
and pasted into a spreadsheet. Text can be copied from a web page
and pasted into an email message. An image can be copied from
a digital photo library and pasted into a report in WordPerfect.
Another useful feature is that once data has been cut or copied,
it can be pasted multiple times in new locations until new data
is cut or copied.
Alternatives
There are several ways to summon these Big Three tools. While
keyboard combinations are often the fastest, try different methods
to see which works the best for you:
· Many applications contain tool bars with individual buttons
for cut, copy and paste.
· Many applications also have menus which allow the user
to click Edit, and then choose Cut, Copy or Paste from the available
menu.
· Another favorite method is to right-click (click the
right mouse button) on the selected data then click Cut, Copy
or Paste from the menu which appears. Mac users can use this method
by clicking on the selected data while holding down the Control
button.
Recent versions of Microsoft Office now include a clipboard
toolbar which allows for easy selection of items which have been
cut or copied prior to the most recent data. This provides an
additional method for taking advantage of Cut, Copy and Paste.
Whatever method you choose for accessing these tools, youll
appreciate the power of the Big Three.
Brad Mann
Principal Consultant
MannTech Consulting
Ross Jutsum Visits
Dr. Ross Jutsum, founder of State of the Heart Ministry, an
inter-denominational worship music ministry, conducted our church
service on February 21, 2004. State of the Heart Ministry is dedicated
to building bridges in the Body of Christ. Ross has produced 13
CDs of worship music and presented concerts, church services,
and seminars in over 300 cities around the world. You can access
State of the Heart Ministry on the Internet at: http://www.stateoftheheart.org
God in the Workplace
By Aimee McNally
Luanna Leisure has been running her own window cleaning business
for 8 years. Aimee McNally, of Christian Business Leaders, interviewed
Luanna asking her to share what it means to include God in her
workplace.
Aimee: How important has God been to your career?
Luanna: God is the most important part of my career. I
always ask God to bless me in my employment and grant me grace
and favor with my employees. For instance, a few years ago I decided
to take up window cleaning to earn a little cash. I prayed for
just one job, which came along quickly. Mike Ferranti had a job
he was not going to do and offered it to me. I talked to the owner
and he said okay. The only problem was I did not know how to clean
windows. I asked my husband Herb to teach me. He could not believe
I accepted a job without first learning how to clean windows.
We went to the business location after it had closed so the owner
would not see that I did not know what I was doing. We spent a
couple of hours in training. I started to cry because I did not
think I could wash windows correctly, but I did not give up. Herb
gave me some supplies and I went to work. Boy, did I pray! I knew
the only way to keep my first job would be by a miracle. God not
only blessed me with my first job but now I have over 70 accounts,
which came mainly by word of mouth.
Aimee: What does the Church teach on blending God in business?
Luanna: Many years ago, the church held a view that it
was best not to talk about God or our beliefs. Not so now. I have
been bold in talking to my coworkers and bosses about God because
of Luke 9:26 which says, For whoever is ashamed of Me and
My words, of him the Son of Man will be ashamed when He comes
in His own glory, and in His Fathers, and of the holy angels.
I strongly believe that my way of life in business is the same
as my way of life at home and church. I pray for some of my clients
and some of my clients pray for me. Several of us share our faith
with each other. Years ago, I would never have prayed with anyone.
How much better it is now that we have the understanding that
praying together is wonderful.
Aimee: When you think of the Bible and business, what comes
to mind?
Luanna: I think, What better blend can there be?
It is through the word of God that we know how to be an honest,
fair, and trustworthy employer and employee.
Aimee: How can a Christian improve his/her God-connection
in the workplace?
Luanna: Prayer, prayer, and more prayer. I want God in
my mind 24/7. I ask Him to be in my mind so I am connected to
Him and He is connected to me. This helps me be a right example
to those I meet at work. Remember Matt 5:14-16, You are
the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be
hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but
on a lamp stand, and it gives light to all who are in the house.
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good
works and glorify your Father in heaven.
Let Us Consider
By Anthony Garside
What Does It Take to Make a Great Church? Years ago and almost
forgotten by most people in the congregation, a period of great
grief and at the same time of great comfort took place in my life.
When my first wife Rita, my daughter Elizabeth, and I moved to
San Jose in the winter of 1994, our new brothers and sisters met
us with great love and warmth. As Rita, who was diagnosed with
colon cancer in 1993, went from one serious near fatal surgery
to another, we were surrounded by the heartfelt love and prayers
of so many who came to our side. It was then I learned about praying
on the telephone. It was then I learned that the crushing despair
of seeing a person getting more and more ill could be shared amongst
others so the burden became lighter and the despair became tolerable.
It was then that watching the suffering of my wife became almost
bearable because so many others really felt the pain with us.
It was then I learned the incredible love of the brothers and
sisters that we have in Jesus Christ. It was then I learned more
about Gods love. I thank God for the way He has helped me
then and now.
I can talk about this much more easily now. Rita died 8 years
ago but God has not removed the experience from my mind. Even
to this day I can picture almost every part of the ordeal. The
comfort and help I received back then and now, too, is all to
Gods glory. In his book Courageous Leadership by Bill Hybels,
the author asks, What makes the difference? What is the
key to the vitality of thriving churches? (p. 24) He discovered
thriving churches within every denomination. What was it that
he discovered in these prevailing churches or fellowships that
compose the Church as a wholethe Body of Christ?
Whatever the capacity of human suffering, the church has
a greater capacity for healing and wholeness. (p. 23) What
Bill Hybels discovered is what I experienced before and after
I moved to San Jose in 1994. Its the love of my brothers
and sisters and its God who gives us this love. In his book,
Bill Hybels recounts the comments of the father of a terminally
ill baby. Bill, were okay
.Weve been in
a loving small group for years. Our group members knew that this
pregnancy had complications. They were at our house the night
we learned the news, and they were at the hospital when Emily
was delivered. They helped us absorb the reality of the whole
thing
They pray for us constantly and call several times
every day. (p. 23) Bill stood in amazement as they left.
Where, I wondered as they left, where would that family
be, where would they go, how would they handle this heartbreak,
without the church?
This father in grief experienced almost exactly what I experienced
when I moved to San Jose in 1994. And its this experience
of brotherly love that makes a church great. Bill Hybels concluded
that in prevailing churches men and women take their leadership
gifts seriously, develop them fully, and deploy them courageously
to work together to make a difference in the world. And this shows
itself in brotherly love.
The local church (THATS US) is the hope
of the world. (p. 15) And God gets the credit for all of
this.
Why Go to Church?
(Excerpt from Our Daily Bread, December 16, 2003)
In a letter to the editor of a British newspaper, a man complained
that he saw no sense in going to church every Sunday. I
have been attending services quite regularly for the past 30 years,
he wrote, and during that time . . . I have listened to
no less than 3,000 sermons. But, to my consternation, I discover
I cannot remember a single one of them. I wonder if a ministers
time might be more profitably spent on something else.
That letter sparked many responses. One, however, was the clincher:
I have been married for 30 years. During that time I have
eaten 32,850 mealsmostly of my wifes cooking. Suddenly
I have discovered that I cannot remember the menu of a single
meal. And yet, I received nourishment from every one of them.
I have the distinct impression that without them I would have
starved to death long ago.
Why Go To Church?
(Author Unknown)
Some go to church to take a walk.
Some go to church to laugh and talk.
Some go to church to meet a friend.
Some go to church, their time to spend.
Some go to church for speculation. Some go to church for observation.
Some go to church to doze and nod. The wise go there to worship
God.
WHY DO YOU GO?
Book Review
By Aimee McNally
In the Presence of My Enemies
by Gracia Burnham
Tyndale, 2003
This book recounts the kidnapping of American missionaries and
their year of terror in the Philippine jungle. Gracia Burnham
dedicated the book to her husband Martin who died while in captivity.
Gracia is an intelligent and educated woman. She does an excellent
job in retelling their story by interweaving flashbacks of her
life while bringing the reader back to the kidnapping. The digressions
are interesting and add depth to the story. The reader learns
of the Burnham familys history before they were married
and their life as missionaries delivering supplies and encouragement
to sick patients in the Philippine jungle. The few disturbing
visual descriptions of their year of terror are retold without
gory details. Martin and Gracia were courageous Christians while
facing many near death circumstances in the jungle. They redeemed
tedious hours of captivity by singing psalms and quoting scripture.
They prayed for their enemies and encouraged other missionary
captives. As the book concludes, it is hard to hold back tears.
The Burnhams exemplify Gods command to love
your enemies and pray for those who persecute you (Matt
5:44). Gods word was written on the hearts and minds of
the Burnhams. His word uplifted and encouraged their spirits during
the most difficult trial of their lives. I recommend this book.
Preschool Class
By Aimee McNally
Since December 2003, the children have finished 10 lessons. The
lessons revolved around several main messages: Jesus is
Gods Son, Jesus cares for people, families,
and those who are sick, and Jesus loves us, keeps
us safe, gives us what we need, and wants us to follow Him.
The children made several crafts related to the lessons, such
as: sheep, family care kits, family frames, and shepherd hats.
They heard Bible stories and sang songs to help them remember
Gods word. They learned how to show care to others and how
difficult life is for people who are sick or disabled. The children
have enjoyed the classes, especially the music and songs. They
have had excellent attitudes and cooperative hearts. All preschool-aged
children are warmly welcomed. The class meets at 11:00AM every
Saturday in the nursery.
Church Happenings
December 2003
Happy New Year!
On December 31 a Non Gambling Casino Night New Years Eve
Party was held in the fellowship hall. Around 100 people ushered
in the New Year with fun and games! Happy New Year!
January 2004
Tragedy Strikes
On Tuesday, January 13, Roy Girrbach had a heart attack and died
instantly. Roy was 41 years old and lived in Hawaii. Roy was the
son of long time church members Emmi and Herbert Girrbach. The
Girrbachs flew to Hawaii for the funeral. Please keep them, their
family, and his wife Herlinda in your prayers.
Albert H. Jacobson Jr. Passes Away
Elaine Jacobsons husband Albert passed away in January after
a long illness. Cards may be sent to Elaine at 1864 Lime Tree
Lane, Mountain View, CA 94040. Please keep her and her family
in your prayers.
Congratulations to Claudia and Joe!
Claudia Wikstrom and Joe Wallace were united in holy matrimony
at an intimate ceremony at the Dahlgrens home on Wednesday,
January 14, 2004. Congratulations to the happy couple! May God
richly bless their marriage!
Rose Merrit Receives Award
Congratulations to Rose Merritt who received the 2004 Good Neighbor
Award, from the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Association of Santa
Clara County. She was recognized for her work as an educator and
community supporter. Awards were presented at a special breakfast
at the Wyndham Hotel in San Jose, CA on January 19th. Congratulations,
Rose!
New Baptisms
On January 31 after church service two people were baptized: Ivan
Paulino and Genevieve Roska. Congratulations! May God continue
to bless your lives.
February 2004
New District Superintendent Visits
Our new District Superintendent, Ken Williams, and his wife Nancy
visited the area on February 14. Ken and Nancy are presently moving
to the Sacramento area from New York. Ken gave sermons in San
Jose and Watsonville. Later that evening they both attended an
Elders Meeting at the home of Betty and Larry Shamus. Welcome
to the area, Ken and Nancy!
50th Wedding Anniversary
February 14, Betty Shamus presented Luella Rousseau with an engraved
gold plate in honor of her wedding anniversary. She and Pierre
have been married 50 years.
In Appreciation
Elise Wilhoyt was presented a beautiful bouquet of flowers in
appreciation for her many years helping in the kitchen.
Christian Business Leaders
Mr. James Nikas, Chief Operating Officer of the Regeneration Project,
spoke to our Christian Business Leaders group at Hobees
Restaurant in Campbell on February 19. His topic was Lighten
Up! The Theological Importance of Environmental Stewardship.
A separate moderated discussion was conducted on But Its
Just Work, about making your work for God. If you are interested
in attending one of these meetings please contact Michael or Aimee
McNally, 408-517-9709, mcnally@cblw.org, or http://www.cblw.org.
Ross Jutsum Visits
State of the Heart Ministries director Dr. Ross Jutsum conducted
a worshipful church service on February 21. Later that day he
taught a Song Writing Seminar. That evening he met with our worship
team for a potluck and led a meeting/discussion about Worship
Ministry. Thank you, Ross! It was a wonderful, enlightening day.
Happy Anniversary to Chester and Mary Harris
A potluck and social was held at the fellowship hall after church
services on February 28. The children of Chester and Mary Harris
provided the dessert in honor of their parents 40th wedding
anniversary.
Church Conference
Pastor Mel Dahlgren and Cliff Higgins attended the Worldwide Church
of God Church Regional Conference in Southern California February
27-29. One of the themes was Growing a Healthy Church.
Speakers included Pastor General Joe Tkach, Dan Rogers, and Ron
Kelly.
March 2004
Welcome to the World
On March 2, 2004, little Emma Takara Emata (8 lbs and 19 ¼
inches long) was born to Bert and Schelley Emata at 7:05 p.m.
Baby Emma and her parents are doing well. So are the proud grandparents,
Calvin and Georgette Emata, Rodger and Priscilla Bauer, and Linda
Bauer. Congratulations to all!
John Jester Interviewed
John Dick, general manager of Watsonvilles local Christian
radio station, KKMC 880AM, interviewed lay pastor John Jester.
This was aired March 6 and 7 in 25-minute segments. Also
there will be 125 30-second announcements about the Watsonville
church during the next six weeks. We pray God will bless
this endeavor!
Bill and Bertha Bryce Visit
Bill Bryce, former assistant pastor for the San Jose and Watsonville
congregations, and his wife Bertha visited the area. Bill gave
the sermon for San Jose on March 13. The Bryces now make their
home in Salt Lake City, Utah. They enjoyed renewing old friendships
and we all certainly enjoyed seeing them again!
New Post Office Box Number
March brings us a new church P.O. Box for those who prefer to
mail their donations. Donations can also be placed in the box
on the stage in the Sanctuary. Please remember to use the yellow
envelopes. If you need yellow envelopes, just contact Mike Ferranti,
Linda Smith, or leave a voice message at 408-566-3158.
South Bay Christian Church
P.O. Box 24333
San Jose, CA 95154-4333
Cancer Takes Christa Brooks
On March 24, Christa Brooks took her last breath and lost her
battle with cancer. She fought a good fight and finished her course.
Christa was a long time member of the San Jose congregation and
the original editor of our church newsletter until she moved to
Seattle, WA about 3 years ago. Her very close friends, the Hall
family, were en route to Seattle when she died sooner than expected.
We thank God for her and we look forward to seeing her in the
better resurrection just around the corner.
Did you miss these events?
First time worship leaders, Bonnie Ferranti & Mike Dreelan
Luanna presents a SCRIP gift certificate to Guess Who
winner, Nain Hulog. John Jester was also a winner.
Youth Group
By Ben Funsten
It has been an exciting and busy year so far... and we only have
a few months left of school. For the four seniors, high school
graduation is just around the corner. College plans are very much
on our minds.
We have two new members who recently moved to San Jose. We bring
a warm welcome to Bryle and Anna Roska! We are very happy to have
them in our group.
Every Saturday after church, we have our weekly Bible study. We
have covered many topics in our high school workbook. Recently
our lessons have been on prayer. We have also talked about the
importance of developing goals. We have been challenged to write
down our personal church service and spiritual development goals
for the rest of this year.
On a couple of occasions we have had the opportunity to enjoy
some bonding activities at Alicia Carrillos house. Some
of the activities include board games, canoeing, and croquette.
Mr. Dahlgren challenged us to a round of croquette. We have yet
to beat him at this sport. A big thanks goes to Alicia Carrillo
for letting us use her home.
This month we are planning to go camping overnight at Castle Rock
State Park. Later in the spring we want to go to Yosemite.
Mentoring
By Joanne Burnsides
Mentoring is a relational process whereby experience and values
are passed from one generation to the next. In recent years,
because people are experiencing the effects of disconnection,
mentoring is making a comeback. A mentor is someone who
enters a voluntary relationship of trust and respect with another
person and is willing to come alongside to simply be there.
A mentor can fulfill the admonition in Galatians 6 of bearing
one anothers burdens.
Anyone can mentor, providing they have learned something from
God and are willing to make a commitment to another person.
Both Old and New Testaments give examples of mentoring relationships.
People that mentor well tend to share certain characteristics:
1. The ability to see potential in another person: Maybe
others view a person as a failure, but a good mentor can see beneath
the surface. A good mentor has a vision of what God may
be up to.
2. Patience: Time and experience are necessary for growth.
A good mentor knows the folly of rushing another persons
learning process.
3. Spiritual giftedness: A good mentor has the gift of encouragement
and the ability to build others up. The gifts of discernment,
giving, and even hospitality are important. By mentoring,
a person can make space in his life for another. It is offering
someone a place where anything can be said without fear of criticism
or ridicule. It is a place where others can be accepted
as they are for the sake of who they may become.
In Hebrews 12, we are all encouraged to run the race set before
us. We all fall from time to time sometimes often.
We need the encouragement of others to get up. We need people
who can inspire us when we feel like quitting. We need people
that are not solely concerned about their own race, but are willing
to help another finish as well. These people are mentors.
They are the faces and voices that keep us going.
~Joanne Burnsides is director of our new Mentoring Ministry.
If you are interested in becoming a mentor or being mentored,
please contact her or Pastor Mel Dahlgren for more information
on this effective ministry tool. ~
The Race
Excerpts from a poem by D. H. Groberg
They all lined up so full of hope;
Each thought to win that race.
Or tie for first, or if not that,
At least take second place.
And fathers watched from off the side
Each cheering for his son.
And each boy hoped to show his dad
That he would be the one.
The whistle blew and off they went!
Young hearts and hopes afire
To win and be the hero there
Was each young boys desire.
And one boy in particular
Whose dad was in the crowd,
Was running near the lead and thought,
My dad will be so proud!
But as they speeded down the field
Across a shallow dip,
The little boy who thought to win
Lost his step and slipped.
Trying hard to catch himself
His hand flew out to brace,
And mid the laughter of the crowd
He fell flat on his face.
But as he fell his dad stood up
And showed his anxious face.
Which to the boy so clearly said;
Get up and win the race.
So anxious to restore himself
To catch up and to win
His mind went faster than his legs;
He slipped and fell again!
But in the laughing crowd he searched
And found his fathers face.
That steady look which said again:
Get up and win the race!
So up he jumped up to try again
Ten yards behind the last
If Im to gain those yards, he thought,
Ive got to move real fast.
Exerting everything he had
He gained eight or ten
But trying so hard to catch the lead
He slipped and fell again!
Ive lost, so whats the use, he thought.
Ill live with my disgrace.
But then he thought about his dad
Who soon hed have to face.
So far behind the others now,
The most hed ever been
Still he gave it all he had
And ran as though to win.
Three times hed fallen, stumbling;
Three times he rose again;
Too far behind to hope to win
He still ran to the end.
They cheered the winning runner
As he crossed the line first place,
Head high, and proud, and happy;
No falling, no disgrace.
But when the fallen youngster
Crossed the line last place,
The crowd gave him the greater cheer
For finishing the race.
And to his dad he sadly said,
I didnt do so well.
To me, you won, his father said.
You rose each time you fell.
And now when things seem dark and hard
And difficult to face,
The memory of that little boy
Helps me in my own race.
For all of life is like that race,
With ups and downs and all.
And all you have to do to win,
Is rise each time you fall.
Quit! Give up! Youre beaten!
They still shout in my face.
But another voice within me says:
GET UP AND WIN THE RACE!
From Our Sister Church to the North,
San Leandro/San Francisco
By Pastor Jim Roberts
Sunday Will Never Be the Same
Hey, days dont matter! Or do they?
This question lay at the heart of a decision reached by the San
Leandro congregation to begin meeting for church service on Sunday.
Before a Worldwide Church of God congregation can even consider
changing worship days, the vast majority must be convinced that
our New Covenant theology really does release us from an obligation
to be Sabbatarian about any day. It requires belief in the concept
that Jesus Christ is our Sabbath rest, 24 hours a day, 7 days
a week.
Once we believe that, we realize days dont matter. So, why
switch? One day is as good as another, and we are comfortable
where we are. Right? But now we must ask ourselves, what is the
purpose for the church? What is its mission? What is our congregational
mission and vision? When San Leandro determined the answers to
these questions, we drew the conclusion that days do matter, not
in a legalistic sense, but in a mission sense.
When we drew up our mission statement, we put ourselves on a collision
course with our worship day. That statement is: To be and make
disciples through sharing Gods love. Our day was Saturday
and in the afternoon at that. Now Saturday afternoon is known
to be the worst time for a service if a church expects to reach
potential disciples in its community.
We began to cultivate two words as keys to our future: positioning
and availability. We wanted to position ourselves to be available
to God if He should choose to use us to impact our community.
We began to question whether Saturday p.m. church was a good position
to be in for availability for seekers in our neighborhood. We
realized that Sunday morning is the time when almost any potential
convert in our culture would be looking for a church home. Meeting
then would increase opportunity to share Gods love in a
significant way.
But finances and opportunity limited us. We had affordable rent
where we were meeting. We would have to wait for the Lord to open
a door if He intended to honor our commitment to disciple making.
And He did just that!
A Samoan group was renting the smaller Chapel across the lawn
from the large Sanctuary where we met. The Chapel seated about
50, and it did not take 50 Samoans to outgrow it! So the Chapel
became available to make us more available. We negotiated with
Christ Presbyterian for use of the Chapel, and they voted in our
favor. We would make our move on February 1, 2004.
So this crazy pastor who was committed to reaching the community,
growing the church and making disciples, moves his congregation
into a smaller hall with less room for growth! Sometimes thinking
big requires thinking small. Our new vision meant we had to think
positioning first for the sake of community availability. And
so, One In Christ Community Church (OICCC) was born.
Space will not permit me to share at this time all that we went
through to make the transition. And we are not finished with the
process even yet. I will try to share more of our experience with
you in the next issue. The jury is still out on whether fruit
will be born. That is Gods work, not ours. We just want
to be more available to Him.
One thing is obvious. For us at OICCC, Sunday will never be the
same. Pay us a visit some time.
Christian Writers Conference
By Luanna Leisure
Five of our newsletter staff members attended a Christian Writers
Conference March 12-13. The keynote speaker was Cecil Murphey,
an award winning and widely published writer. He emphasized that
we are writers, and we are to read, read, read. We are not to
imitate others, but to learn and then to write in our own style.
Some of the workshops we attended were: Turning Bible Studies
into Articles, Interviewing, Basics I, II, & III Taking
Your Idea From Start to Publication, Bringing Personality Profiles
to Life, Writing Your Faith in a Secular Market, & The Ministry
of Writing.
From Our Sister Church to the South
By Mary Webb
Watsonville News
Wow! We ended this period with a bang. It was party
time! On January 17th, during Church Life, we
got a surprise announcement from Joe Wallace that he and Claudia
Wikstrom had been married on January 14th! Knowing we would
all be disappointed to have missed the wedding, we were invited
to a party celebration on February 28th at the Green Valley Grill
banquet room in Watsonville. There we were able to meet
Claudia and Jeans family as well as Joes. Also
we enjoyed friends we hadnt seen in many years like Skip
and Marsha Emerson. It was a fun night for all!
Other noteworthy happenings were on our calendar. John Dick, general
manager of our local Christian radio station, KKMC 880AM, interviewed
our lay pastor, John Jester. This was aired March 6th and
7th in 25-minute segments. Also there will be 125 30-second
announcements about our church during the next six weeks.
We pray God will bless this endeavor.
On February 14th we had the pleasure of a visit from our new superintendent,
Mr. Ken Williams, presently from Rochester, NY but in the process
of moving to Sacramento, CA, and his wife Nancy. The sermon
he gave was about the primary purpose of the church, which is
to live and share the gospel.
On February 28th we remembered Black History month by singing
some of the southern favorites during worship services led by
Dillus Belfield. John Merriner is getting used to commuting
weekly to Sacramento for his new job. Inez Haro also does
a lot of driving to help out her sister who moved to Stockton.
Maria Ramirez has a nearly one-year-old grandson Andy who has
undergone a number of surgical operations at Stanford. After
his last procedure several days ago, he is in a critical condition
and needs a lot of our prayers. Albert Roberts was rushed
to our local hospital for heart surgery on February 15th.
God answered our fervent prayers and Mr. Roberts was home two
days later! He attended our church service the same week
and since then.
Some years ago I wrote Our Stalwart Men. The
men in our fellowship are growing to meet the Webster definition
of an unassailability, impregnability, and complete dependability.
Of course, we also have ladies who meet this standard. What
would we be without untiring workers like Isabel Merriner, Claudia
Wallace, and Chris Cepin who keep our services functioning smoothly?
A Poem of Thanks to Our Stalwart Men
By Mary Webb
We, the ladies of our Church,
Wish to place our men on a perch.
Were so grateful to have you around
You take care of many things including the sound.
Inspiring sermons are your hallmark
Allowing the Holy Spirit our minds to spark.
Your many attributes were grateful for
God has blessed you with gifts galore.
Some delight us with the ability to speak
Playing musical instruments is what others seek.
Effective intercessory prayer some possess
Others the ability for sinners to confess.
Giving sound advice and teaching, others do
Some just love to warm their pew.
With song leading some of you us bless
While organizational skills others possess.
No matter how God has blessed your soul
We need each one to make the Church whole.
Our love and concern are with you and we dare
To pray God will put each man under His care.
Bumper Stickers
* Are you wrinkled with burden?
Come on in for a faith lift.
* A family altar can alter a family.
* We dont change the message
the message changes us.
* This Church is prayer-conditioned.
* Hem your day with prayer and it will
be less apt to unravel at the edges.
* A clean conscience makes a soft pillow.
* He who is good at making excuses
is seldom good for anything else.
* Worry is the darkroom in which
negatives are developed.
* Forbidden fruits create many jams.
* Deciding not to choose is still making a choice.
* Give God whats right, not whats left!
MOTHER'S DAY - May 9
In honor of Mothers Day we thought we would share some
quotes and memories people have about their mothers.
My mom has never refused to help me when I needed help. She
is a mother in deed. Chester Harris
Mom is not crazy after having 15 children and thats a
real blessing from God. Alicia Carrillo
When I was growing up, Mom was always the best listener. I
couldnt wait to get home and tell Mom about my day. Shelly
DavisMom always said, Beauty is skin deep, but ugliness
is to the bone. Barbara Dahlgren
Whenever we go out my mom always gives us a kiss and says, God
bless you! Nain and Abby Hulog
Some wise words from my mom, If all else fails, add salt!
Carol Ackerman
I feel blessed that my mom was a stay at home mom. What else
could she do? She had 7 children. Betty Shamus
My mom always said, Theres not enough room in here
to swing a cat. Dewitt Wyatt
My mom was born legally blind and didnt have a formal education
but she was always gutsy and stepped out on faith. She set a great
example for me. Carol Silveria
My mom always said, If you cant say anything nice
about someone, dont say anything at all.Colleen
Doerr
As long as I can remember, the Lord was the strength of my moms
life. Mary Harris
Who ran to help me when I fell,
And would some pretty story tell,
Or kiss the place to make it well?
My mother.
By Ann Taylor ~ 1804
FATHER'S DAY - June 20
In honor of Fathers Day we thought we would share some
quotes and memories people have about their fathers
I truly appreciate all the love, time, and energy my parents
have devoted to their grandchildren in mentoring, supporting,
and motivating them toward adulthood. Here are some wise words
from my dad. Its cheaper over at Costco! Carol
Ackerman
Dad encouraged me to go into nursing so I could come to America.
I listened to him and it worked out very well for me. He was a
wise man. Belen Wilson
My parents really led by example. They were hard working their
entire life and I learned a strong work ethic from them. We didnt
and still dont always see eye to eye on all
things, but I never questioned their belief in hard work, which
brings rewards beyond monetary. Scott Wilson
My parents instilled hard work and honesty in me. They were
very caring people. They attended every funeral and visited the
sick. They were always willing to help those in need. Mike
Ferranti
My dad encouraged us to get things done. He said, Never
leave things for tomorrow if you can do them today. Enriqueta
Ojeda
My dad always said, You need to save a little money as
a cushion so when you fall, you have something soft to land on.
Larry Shamus
Father always told me, Keep your eyes and ears open,
and your mouth shut, and youll be just fine. Bonnie
Ferranti
Growing up, either Mom or Daddy would get up with us every
day and make us breakfast. Breakfast was always a surprise when
it was Daddys turn. One of his specialties was pickle omelettes.
Shelly Davis
A Fathers Prayer
By E. Brustetter
Dear heavenly Father,
Im sure You understand,
Because you are a father,
And hold us in Your hand.
I pray that I may be
A loving father, too.
I want to follow Your example
In all I say or do.
I Love to Tell the Story
By Virginia Allen
My younger sister and I were adopted into a childhood filled with
sorrow and abuse. I was determined to survive for my sake and
hers. We were taught to obey and be silent. I felt very alone,
unable to trust, and full of fear. There was a lot of fear. I
wanted to do the right thing, but with no positive feedback I
was never really sure about anything.
Still, as a young child, I always believed in God and knew there
had to be something better. I remember standing at a window at
age 9, looking up to the heavens, and feeling Gods presence.
I believed in a Creator and that in spite of the abuse, someone
was watching out for me. At age 10 I tried to read the Bible all
the way through but my mother made fun of me even though she made
sure my sister and I went to church each week.
At church I was part of the youth group and choir. I always loved
singing. However, I never really worshipped God through music
until much later in life. I didnt have a father for most
of my life so I couldnt really identify with a Father figure
that loved me. Everyone gave me the impression that God was out
to get me if I didnt do what was right. So I sort of feared
God but wanted him to love me all at the same time. Sadly, though,
I never felt lovable or worthy of being loved.
Since obedience was such a part of my childhood I gravitated toward
churches that drew certain perimeters. As long as I stayed within
certain guidelines, obeyed certain rules, and followed certain
laws I would be safe and would be pleasing God. This legalistic
approach made me a good head Christian, but I found
out there is a vast difference in being a head Christian
and a heart Christian. What I really yearned for was
a relationship with God. I was still a little girl, looking up
to the heavens, crying out for God to sustain me. God heard that
cry, and gradually He allowed me to come to know Him as a loving
Father.
I think my relationship with God and Jesus Christ has been a journey.
I can look back and see where God has protected, provided, healed,
and sustained me. Just thinking about what Hes done for
me brings tears to my eyes. Im coming to see Him as a faithful,
loving Father who loves me just the way I am. Not because I am
worthy but because He is Love. This awesome love is not something
I earn but something He gives me and all mankind. God sees something
in humans that we dont see. Thats why in His great
love, He gave His only begotten Son.
Worship has become a part of my life. I realize, now, that worship
is more than just singing. Its everything that has to do
with God. Worship is prayer, meditation, listening, and sharing.
It makes me more comfortable in sharing with others what God has
done for me. This is a big thing for someone who was taught to
remain silent. I can also pray for others with confidence, knowing
it will work out! I dont always know how but I know with
God, it will.
Im coming to realize Gods very existence, who He is,
what Hes like. Im developing trust. He gives me friendship
and companionship. He is my all in all. He is the love of my life.
He puts his hand out to me and I want to put my hand in His. Like
the song says, Put your hand in the hand of the man who
calmed the water. Im on a journey and I need to have
my hand in His reassuring hand so I can go wherever He wants me
to go and do whatever He wants me to do.
Newsletter Staff
Editor - Barbara Dahlgren
Assistant Editor - Linda Smith
Circulation - Edrie Felts
Collating - Betty Shamus
Let Us Consider - Anthony Garside
Christian Business Leaders - Aimee McNally/Michael McNally
Photographers - Linda Smith/Betty Shamus/Luanna Leisure
Reporter/Features - Mike Ferranti/Betty Shamus
San Leandro/San Francisco - Jim Roberts
Teen Scene - Ben Funsten
Watsonville - Mary Webb
Website/Computer - Brad Mann
I Love to Tell the Story - Edrie Felts/Alicia Carrillo
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